DBIx::Class (in perl) has a connection info option that calls a method that does its best to turn all of that horrible crap off:
sub connect_call_set_strict_mode {
my $self = shift;
# the @@sql_mode puts back what was previously set on the session handle
$self->_do_query(q|SET SQL_MODE = CONCAT('ANSI,TRADITIONAL,ONLY_FULL_GROUP_BY,', @@sql_mode)|);
$self->_do_query(q|SET SQL_AUTO_IS_NULL = 0|);
}